“we always do our best work and take our turn before we’re ready.” Seth Godin, What To Do When It’s Your Turn
I don’t feel ready. But the winds of change are blowing, and it’s time for an about image on this site. Eek.
“You’re not chasing the goal itself–you’re chasing the feelings that you hope attaining those goals will give you.”–Danielle LaPorte, The Desire Map
Why do we want the things we want in life? Danielle LaPorte says what we really want is to FEEL a certain way, and our goals and dreams are our assumptions of what will make us feel that way.
Me? I want to feel freedom.
If you’re a creative type, you probably have a torrent of ideas threatening to make your head burst.
It’s wonderful and all kinds of exciting, right? It’s stressful and intimidating, right?
You have all these ideas, rushing, roiling past in a river, occasionally splashing you and focusing your attention on the mess dripping from your face. But you can’t catch the river, you only have your hands. So you dip in and grab a sample to bring home and use. A lot slips through your fingers on the way. Maybe you water your garden with what little is left. And the river still rushes and splashes and roars and you can’t grab it all.
Does it ever feel like failure, all the ideas slipping past your fingers? It’s frustrating not to be equipped with a big enough bucket. Or maybe more time. You want every drop but you can’t possibly have it all.
Some ideas will pass you by.
This is OK. It has to be OK. You’re dipping in your hands and getting some drops, right? And you use what you get to make something, right? And you let yourself be vulnerable and show the world the garden you watered with these precious drops, right?
You are being as productive as you can and that’s all you can do.
To the guy on the other side, trying so very hard to catch the whole river in his hands, it’ll look like you’re doing better than he is. He is paralyzed by his failure. Longing for the oceans he missed. But you’re using what you did grab and your garden is growing. Only you will know how much of the river you didn’t catch, how many ideas passed by. We will only see what you did make and we’ll think you’re brilliantly prolific.
Keep going. Make stuff. Water your garden. Grow what you can and let us all enjoy it.